Sunflowers remind me of Steve in many ways. They are strong and vibrant, just like he was. Their presence is seen throughout nature, and the rugged mountains that he loved. Sunflowers and roses were dominant in the bouquet we chose for his casket. It harmonized with the engraved pine trees on the exterior of the casket, surrounding him with some of the things he enjoyed in life.
In the interior of the casket a beautiful picture of the temple was displayed. Although Steve loved the out-doors, nothing could replace his love, and respect for the temple. What a blessing it is to have the sealing ordinances of the temple.
Recently, Ben asked, "Mom will you take to Dad's grave?" Tears fill my eyes, each time he asks. A young child should never have to ask such a question. They should be protected from these great sorrows in life.
When we visit the grave Ben enjoys laying on the grass, looking up to the sky, and talking about times he can remember with his Dad. I think he worries a little about losing those great memories. We look up to heaven, and talk about what it would be like. I'm sure heaven is a great place to be.
1 comments:
That is really sweet of you to do for Ben. It will give him good memories of you and help him remember Steve.
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